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Monday, April 19, 2010

:: ada idea tak macam mana nak....::

handle anak yang kerasa hati?

this question above refers to Muhammad Haddyff Zulfadhli, the second one..

dia ni actually have a very likeable features and I can bet that he will, somehow, grow up and become a "player" ... **if you get my drift**

tapi ada satu pe'el dia yang ada masa membuatkan saya rasa runsing sket...

bukan apa, dia ni keras hati ..kalau dah kata dia PUTIH, putih lah.. **mungkin ikut Inche' S.O kot**

tapi Inche' S.O claimed that he was not like this when he was growing up... **yelah, sapa nak ngaku tak?**

but kalau tgk kan gaya Inche' S.O skang pun, I concur..and I believe dia warisi "kedegilan" & "keras hati" ni mebbe dr the both of us...:P

contoh, kalau dia kata taknak makan..dia tak akan makan..

pujuklah macam mana...ada masa anak2 ni kalau kita pujuk cara baik, dia akan mengalah kan?Not my Haddyff...ckplah apa pun, dia will not budge AT ALL..and at times kita akan cuba "good cop, bad cop" trick kan, just to make sure anak2 makan and habiskan kesemua nasi, lauk pauk dlm pinggan kan?sila tahu itu trick tak jalan ye dgn Haddyff...sometime, I become soooo frustrated tau..lebih-lebih lagi kalau that day I cooked him his favourite food, konon2 dengan harapan dptlah "menambat" nafsu makan dia tu.... **huisy!**

lagilah kalau pat makan...

**sila tahu Harryth & Baby Pan ||our petname for Haddy Irfan|| are good eaters..kalau org Jawa kata, tolak batu dgn kayu jer...ha ha ha ha ha ha..so I was quite worried bila anak sorang tu bukan "pemakan" orangnya..**

penah sekali tuh nangis2, kena ugut masuk stor, tidur dlm toilet pun dia tak layan..kalau dia taknak, taknaklah!

so..kalau2 lah kengkawan ada petua macam mana nak hilangkan keras hati dia tu, sudilah kiranya berkongsi dengan saya..

bukan apa, I am afraid if the attitude is not restricted only for his food intake..buatnya pe'elnya tu terbawak2 ke perkara yang lain dlm hidup dia, kan ke parah tu namanya?

FYI,I am game for anything...:D

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Baca Surah Ta-Ha Ayat 1 hingga 5

Hembuskan pada umbun kepala anak semasa tidur atau pada hidungnya semasa dia menarik nafas

Scorpio Girl said...

Anonymous-trimas atas petua yang diberikan.Insha-ALLAH, akan di cuba secepat mungkin...:D

Anonymous said...

Hi, I am blog hopping, n suddenly terbaca ur problem. I was attending a talk with an IJN dietician last week. She said if ur kid does not want to eat, let it be. Kalo paksa die makan jugak, yes we will win the battle (maksudnye die makan 2,3 suap) but we will not win the war (every meal time pun akan berperang mcm ni). if possible, sit together dan makan sekali dengan dia. Kalo die xnak jugak, just explain to him what is the consequences kalau dia x makan. Kalo die dah boleh faham, cakap kat die kalo gastrik sampai masuk hsptl, kite x akan tunggu dia n biar dia sorang2 tido kat sana.

Scorpio Girl said...

Anonymous II..yup,it has been quite a battle everytime just to make him eat. At times, he even refused to even nibble a bit tau?very frustrated!FYI, we always have our meals together..as I amalkan suap anak2 during every meal, even for my 5year old..That has been my aim, to have them sit down, eat together kan?tapi tu lah si Haddyff after like 2-3 suap terus geleng, takmo...ha ha ha, gastrik ek?:D

anyway, just curious, you punya dietician tu ada nama SITI FARHATH ke?:D

p/s: tq for dropping by and commenting!