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Saturday, April 10, 2010

:: semua ini boleh di elakkan KALAU.....::

people think that it's funny and awkward for a car to have 2 babyseats & a booster chair,do you?

I don't!

because the car I am talking about up there is MINE...

I have 2 babyseats, 1 for Haddyff & the other one is for Haddy Irfan..as for the booster chair, that one is specifically bought for Abg Harryth..

Why do I have those, you ask?

because I want to keep my children safe while travelling..

It is crucial, not only to have the correct car for a family **if your finances allows it**, a good driver behind the wheel **I don't date or marry daredevils!** and for parents to invest in good, quality babyseats and boosters!

jangan tak tahu, I have been mocked before for this, and not just by anyone, but by someone quite close to us..

ayat dia yang paling best ialah...

"buat apa nak bazir-bazir beli kerusi nih, nanti besar jugak..then, kerusi tu nak campak mana?"

"takpelah, kalau anak2 u nak tumpang dlm kete i, anak2 i boleh jagakan, tak payah nak angkut kusi dia semua....."

cuma ada satu insiden yang menyebabkan dia terus diam dan langsung takpenah bukak mulut lagi pasal isu ni..

we were in Spore, just nice kan Inche' S.O baru habes keje and we brought the boys to the Pasir Ris amusement Park...and on our way back home, we wanted to have lunch first..then the husband of this lady called  and terus muka Inche' S.O berubah..

bila tanya, kenapa..dia diam..dia cuma suruh makan cepat2 and ada hal yang perlu diuruskan..

rupa2nya nak dijadikan cerita..family tadi terlibat dlm kemalangan..walaupun tak mengorbankan nyawa, agak teruk jugak..kereta perlu di-tow masuk balik Msia and looking at the kids, we offered to send the children back home in our car **imagine, 2 adults and 7 children all cramped into our car, nasib baik besar and muat!**

yang paling menyedihkan, anak-anak semua tak pakai seat belt/ being put in childseats..anak yang bongsu bila si bapa brek mengejut , dalam usaha cuba mengelakkan kereta di hadapan, terhumban ke dashboard while the mother suffered minor concussion pasal dia sendiri terhumban ke windscreen depan..masing2 dah macam tak betul..maybe traumatised dengan kejadian yang berlaku..lebam, biru sana sini..

saya memang tak pernah mendoakan agar perkara2 begini terjadi kepada famili ini, eventhough at times I felt hurt with whatever they said about me and my attitudes towards the upbringing of my kids, but mungkin ada fadhilatNya di sebalik kejadian yang berlaku..

yang penting bagi saya, mereka belajar dr kesilapan dan takkan melakukannya lagi..tpi sedih, solution yang di ambil adalah mahu tukar kereta baru **kerana kononnya kereta yang ada sudah ada "sial", byk sgt eksiden** dr "melaburkan" duit utk membeli kelengkapan tambahan utk keselamatan anak- anak di dalam kereta...whatever!

takpelah, in the meantime...lemme have my peace of mind tatkala anak2 semua menjerit in unison "Stop the car Mommy, Harryth/ Haddyff belum pakai safety belt lagi!!!"

it's like music to my ears, darlings!

2 comments:

Asz said...

i dont think its funny dear ... to hv 2 babyseats & a booster chair in ur car ... if i were to hv kids like u, still kecik2 lagi, maybe i wud do da same thing ... i hv one in my car, xpenah bwk kluar pon ... jgn kan nk travel, back & forth ke nursery pon i put Ammar in his seat and buckle up ...

if they dun like da idea, to me its their lost ... not ours ..

anw, do da best for ur loved ones, lantak lah kalau ada org nk ngata pon ... kita x rugi apa kannn ... take care!

Scorpio Girl said...

you said it, sis!
cuma sedih mentaliti macam tu masih ada, di kalangan kita mak-mak nih...we are supposed to be the clear headed ones, kan?patutnya sebab kita ni lebih sensitif terhadap anak2 yang kita should be thinking more about the safety, tapi tidak...hmmm, I am just praying that they learnt their lesson, that's all..